bugshaw: (Meme)
Bridget ([personal profile] bugshaw) wrote2013-03-22 10:48 pm

Party like it's 2004

A meme!
How this works:
You comment, I give you an age (please tell me how old you currently are - I don't know all of your ages) and you fill out the meme questions with what applied to you back then, and now.

[livejournal.com profile] darth_tigger gave me 18. This was 1988-89, I turned 18 on the day I got my A Level results, missed out on missed my first choice university by a grade, and spent the year doing a gap year job.

I lived in: Edgware, north London, with my mother and sometimes my sister. Pretty far out but on the tube line and very handy for going in to London for cinema and stuff.

I drove: under duress, hating it, but trying to learn before going up to university. Didn't get as far as taking the test until some 20 years later. Mum used to pick me up from work sometimes and get me to drive back.

I was in a relationship with: Phil from Manchester, my school best friend's boyfriend's best friend. We wrote lots of letters. It lasted about a year, should have been less but neither of us had learnt to realise when something wasn't working.

I feared: I don't remember, I was pretty positive about prospects for success at study and future work and not having to live in poverty in a gutter, because getting a good job is so easy when you're clever, yes? No? I was pretty bullish about going around London on my own and coming home late at night, as the alternative was not going out, and sod that for a lark. The main fear I remember is never getting another boyfriend after Phil left me. Teenagers, eh?

I worked at: GEC, as a student, on liquid crystal displays, back when 7-segment displays were everywhere and things with 7x5 pixels were awesomely amazing. We made 3D LCD glasses which basically blacked out each lens in time with a changing display. It was fun, I got to do wet science and electrical science and computer science and make things and melt things and use optical benches and lasers and microscopes and plot graphs, and it was a great basis to have to then go and do a degree with all the reservations about "So when would I ever use this abstruse theory in the real world/work?" I would love to send my smart-ish phone back in time there - the colours! The resolution! The tiny on-board power and drivers!

I wanted to be: a Scientist. Possibly a Nobel prize winner.

***
Now (at 42):

I live in: Cambridge, have done for about 8 years now. Loads of stuff, nice people, and close to London (or "that London" or "teh London" as people seem to call it these days).

I drive: rarely, having passed my test but still finding it uncomfortable and unenjoyable. It's [livejournal.com profile] tamaranth's car, it lives in a narrow garage that I find it impossible to enter/leave the car from, and that's if I were able to get it in or out in the first place. It's like wriggling a bent coathanger under a shed door to unhook a key, getting into that car in the garage, leaves me knackered.

I am in a relationship with: no one at present. Hamsters don't count.

I fear: Never getting another boyfriend. 42-year-olds, eh? And with the mobility issues, I fear if I lose my job I may not be lucky enough to get another one that would accommodate my needs. And in general, I fear the impact of the recents cuts and the direction of attitudes towards unemployed and disabled people. People at the top work hard and deserve their money! A lot of people at the bottom also work hard and are not rewarded. People at the top should STFU and stop believing in magical trickle-down economics.

I work at: counting nurses. It is surprisingly difficult. Next year (July) we start getting data on new things about nurses, so will be able to do some decent work on attrition factors and getting people from study into the workforce.

I want to be: Nah, I'm good as I am, I think. Mostly. I've turned out alright, with integrity and stuff, I've done cool things and have good memories in the bank, I try to be a good thing in people's lives, and if all else fails I can make puns on Twitter and entertain people for a couple of seconds. Ephemera ftw.
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[personal profile] yalovetz 2013-03-22 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Interesting exercise. I'll take an age (am currently 31).

I share many of your current fears. :( Except the one about never getting a boyfriend, that doesn't scare me personally. ;)

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-22 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Is this where we go "But you're so awesome, any fule would be lucky to employ you!" It's never so easy when you're actually job hunting though.

Take 25.

[identity profile] hilarityallen.livejournal.com 2013-03-22 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll take an age. I'm currently 33.

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-22 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Gives you 20.

[identity profile] marykaykare.livejournal.com 2013-03-22 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmm this is very interesting. I would sort of like to take an age too, but I can't be sure I'll be able to do it. I'm feeling a bit wobbly just now. In the event you're ok with that, and it's fine if you aren't, I'm currently 60.

MKK

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-22 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
What were you doing at 42? No obligations, I'd be interested to read if the moment takes you.
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[personal profile] hnpcc 2013-03-23 05:03 am (UTC)(link)
I'll take an age. I am... hm, I actually had to work that out on my fingers. Brain's gone, obviously. Anyway, I'm apparently 40, which I don't remember happening. :-)

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-23 10:27 am (UTC)(link)
My god you have a lot of fingers!

Try 28?
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[personal profile] uitlander 2013-03-23 09:05 am (UTC)(link)
If you worked at GEC on LCD displays did you know my best friend Anita (the somewhat insane technician that worked with the insane genius Pat)?

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-23 10:09 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, yes! She was great. Her stories of Doctor Who conventions made me seek out the science fiction society at university and leap at the chance to go to a convention the first time I found one. Small world! Pat was cool too. We had fun at lunchtimes doing the Evening Standard crossword.
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[personal profile] uitlander 2013-03-23 10:54 am (UTC)(link)
She and I always shared rooms at Doctor Who conventions, had the collective video collection of almost everything and spent a lot of time shouting "Sod, that for a lark!" which had been our catch phrase throughout the 1983 Longleat celebration when the queues were too long for anything.

She lives in Southend now, has a daughter, and is still insane. I keep trying to tempt her and family out here. I shall make sure you're on the invite list if she ever makes it :-)

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-23 11:08 am (UTC)(link)
Happy to see her if she makes it up here :-) The cons sounded like wonderful times.

[identity profile] tamaranth.livejournal.com 2013-03-23 10:30 am (UTC)(link)
am 47!
I reserve the right to censor the results ...

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-23 10:36 am (UTC)(link)
How was 35 for you?

[identity profile] fjm.livejournal.com 2013-03-23 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm 45. I'll take an age.

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-23 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
How were things at 30?
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[personal profile] muninnhuginn 2013-03-24 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
OK, I'm, err... 46. I'll risk a number (some are riskier than others).

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-24 11:16 am (UTC)(link)
I am finding it a bit weird asking people's ages. Perhaps I should instead have asked what upper bound you would like on the age I ask about. 26?
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[personal profile] muninnhuginn 2013-03-28 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
It's more the fact I have to think about it.

[identity profile] a-cubed.livejournal.com 2013-03-24 05:34 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 43. What does that get me?

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-24 11:20 am (UTC)(link)
I usually ask about an age before I met someone, and I have not gone young yet. How was 9? Interpret the driving etc questions as you see fit!

[identity profile] a-cubed.livejournal.com 2013-03-24 01:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Heh, yes, we have to go back a ways. We met in what, 90? 89?

See: Past Lives Meme (friends-locked, I'm afraid).
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[personal profile] liv 2013-03-24 01:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Hello! I am 34 and I would like an age to ponder, please?

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-24 05:45 pm (UTC)(link)
How about 24?
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[personal profile] dalmeny 2013-03-25 07:53 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for spreading this meme, as I have found everyone's answers interesting.

I'd like to join in. I'm 40.

[identity profile] bugshaw.livejournal.com 2013-03-25 09:03 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, they are! What were you doing at 31?